And that’s a wrap – we did it! End of term one! One down, and two to go! Now we can finally sit back and relax into the festive season. It’s time to toss the lunchbox into the back of the cupboard, take down the “Don’t forget PE kit on Monday” notes, and just… breathe. While you’re pondering the deeply significant Christmas questions, like whether the tree needs more decorations or where to source the perfect turkey, let’s take a moment to reflect on what Christmas truly means for our families.
Yes, the season has its roots in religious traditions, but let’s look at the tale of St. Nicholas — the original Santa Claus. Nicholas, a 4th-century bishop from Lycia (modern-day Turkey), was celebrated for his generosity, compassion, and the odd miracle or two (calming storms and resurrecting children, no big deal). His acts of kindness, like secretly delivering gold to a poor man’s home to save his daughters from a grim fate, embody the spirit of giving we cherish today. Over time, Nicholas’ story evolved, thanks in part to Dutch settlers and their “Sinterklaas,” into the jolly fellow we now know as Santa Claus.
Santa is more than a bringer of gifts; he’s a symbol of kindness and magic. For children, he’s proof that fairy tales are real. Let’s be honest – how many times have you reminded your little ones that Santa only visits when they’re good? It’s an ingenious way of encouraging self-reflection (and maybe just a smidge of bribery).
But Christmas isn’t just about Santa. It’s about carols – those wonderful, if sometimes off-key, moments where the whole family can belt out “Silent Night” or “Rudolph” together. It’s about teaching kids the joy of giving: helping them think about what others might like, learning patience as they wait for gifts, and practising gratitude (even when Aunt Mildred’s socks weren’t quite on their wish list). It’s a time to decorate together, craft ornaments, and remember family members near and far.
Christmas also teaches empathy. Why not donate to a charity bin or give away toys that have been gathering dust? These acts help children appreciate their blessings while spreading joy to others.
And then there’s the hilarity of the season. Who could forget the annual Christmas play, complete with dubious donkey costumes and a slightly miffed sheep (who wanted to be the star but got relegated to the back row)? It’s these little moments of chaos and charm that make the season magical. Do not get me started on elf on a shelf when talking about little moments. I am so grateful that this happened after my kids were older and missed this craze. I do, however, love seeing mums’ amazing and out-of-this-world elaborate scenes, but I am not that mum! I would probably have had the elves completing maths sheets or homework and leaving them to be finished by my children over breakfast! (as I said so so happy I missed it all)!
However, in our house, traditions reign supreme. Each year, we still include an orange and coal in Santa’s sacks – a nod to days gone by. Even now, at 19, 20, and 26, my children gather to put up the tree (they are still without any idea of how to make it look beautiful, and I have to stop myself removing every poorly placed bauble and remind myself that the bonus is not all the decorations are on the bottom of the tree now they are taller) and then for all of us to work tirelessly on our annual Christmas Eve jigsaw. These traditions are more than rituals; they’re the precious glue that holds our family’s festive spirit together, the memories that they will carry when they are with their own families in the future.
So, as you prepare for the holiday madness, remember that Christmas is more than a day; it’s an opportunity to embody the qualities St. Nicholas taught us: generosity, kindness, and compassion. It’s a time to create memories, foster connections, and start traditions that your children will carry forward to the next generation. Christmas holds tremendous educational and emotional value for children. It encourages creativity through festive crafts, problem-solving as they wrap presents or build gingerbread houses, and teamwork as families come together to decorate or prepare meals. Emotionally, it fosters a sense of belonging, joy, and gratitude, reminding children of the love and support that surrounds them. These lessons go far beyond the holiday season, shaping their character for life.
And as for that Christmas play? Whether your child is the star, the sheep, or the donkey, you’ll always be their biggest fan. Here’s to a season filled with joy, laughter, and a little bit of Christmas magic! As I always say trust the process, enjoy the present and believe that it will all work out (somehow).
Sending a sprinkle of patience and love to you all for an amazing holiday ahead