This week, let’s unravel one of life’s great mysteries: the difference between co-curricular, extra-curricular, and super-curricular activities. Anything with the word extracurricular used to throw me into a mild panic as I knew it would entail three children in three different parts of the emirate at the same time—inevitably becoming a scheduling chaos that turned this noble endeavor into a caffeine-fueled, chaos-riddled marathon. So, let me explain the subtle (and not-so-subtle) differences of the three.
Co-curricular activities are the loyal sidekick, the Robin to your child’s academic Batman. Organised by schools, these activities are designed to complement and deepen classroom learning. They’re not just for fun—they help build critical skills like teamwork, leadership, and analytical thinking, making lessons truly come alive. Think of the science fair where your budding Einstein invents a better mousetrap or the maths club where your mini genius tackles equations that just might solve global warming. These activities matter because they bridge theory and practice, helping kids see how what they learn in school connects to the real world. Whether it’s debating, recycling, or a book club, co-curricular activities ignite curiosity and reinforce key learning.
Extra-curricular activities, on the other hand, are all about passion and personal growth—the joy-bringers that help kids explore their interests outside the academic realm. Football, photography, playing in the school band, or volunteering at an animal shelter—these activities are where soft skills like time management, resilience, and collaboration are born. They’re crucial for building confidence and giving kids an outlet for creative and physical energy. Plus, bonus points if the activity fosters empathy or community spirit. When your child organises a beach clean-up or dives into charitable work, they’re not just having fun; they’re learning responsibility, leadership, and the value of making a difference. While this is a tough one in Dubai, there are places that need help, including side walking for children of determination at Desert Palm, dog walking for shelters, and beach clean-ups. I so wish there was more, as supporting people with less than you gives children such good perspective and a humbleness that will serve them well in later life.
The final category is super-curricular activities—the academic overachievers of the activity world. These are about diving deep into academic interests, going beyond the classroom to show a true passion for learning. They’re the key to standing out on applications to universities (hello, Oxbridge and Ivy League). Think of your child bingeing online coding classes, quoting King Lear at dinner, or reading War and Peace over half-term. (If only I hear so many mutter, but it does happen). Super-curriculars matter because they demonstrate intellectual curiosity and a proactive approach to learning—traits that universities and employers value highly. Taking part in Duke of Edinburgh or International Awards is worth the effort on so many levels. The Gold expedition, without doubt, changes children; they come back with a strong awareness that they have what it takes within them if they only dig deep enough.
Here’s why all this matters: universities and future employers aren’t just hunting for grades anymore. They’re looking for students who are well-rounded, socially engaged, and genuinely curious about the world. A thoughtful mix of co-curricular, extra-curricular, and super-curricular activities says, “Look at me—I’m the full package!” These activities build a foundation of life skills—commitment, adaptability, teamwork—and open doors to opportunities that grades alone can’t.
Of course, getting this mix right is no small feat. Between one childs’s cricket match and the other’s ballet recital (scheduled at the same time, across town, because life loves a challenge), it can feel like a full-time job. And let’s not forget the convincing required to get them to rugby practice, despite the small fortune spent on pristine kit and boots.
But here’s the silver lining: all this effort pays off—not just for future personal statements but for life. Every club joined, goal scored, and book read shapes them into resilient, capable individuals ready to take on the world. And yes, even those “I don’t want to go” moments are character-building—for them and for you. So, grab your calendar and coffee—this adventure is worth it. So hang in there, mums. You’re not just raising kids; you’re crafting well-rounded, resilient human beings. Now, if anyone’s invented teleportation for parents, drop us a message. Dubai traffic waits for no ballet shoe! As I always say, we don’t have a crystal ball, so trust the process. I hope you’ve got your trees up and are starting to get those festive feels—the holidays are a mere week away, and for me, that means the return of my college kids, with their piles of washing and newfound independence!